I am a suicide. I am a Christian. In this article I will explain how others, especially those of the belief, survive or help other people to survive the tragedy of suicide death of family and best friends.
My father committed suicide with excess alcohol prescription drug with alcohol. Alcohol is a depression that exacerbates the suicidal tendency of those prone to such self-destructive behavior. I was 16 years old then. I was ashamed mistakenly for my father's suicide in much of my life. Indeed, that feeling of shame is one of my great regrets in my life. With a combination of drugs and alcohol, my father may not even intend to take on his life. It may be an accident. They were not suicidal notes. He did not declare suicide. Answer to that mystery we never know. Still, officially his death certificate declared it suicide.
When someone asked me how my father died, I say he died of a heart attack. That is the response my mother instructed to tell me repeatedly. The appearance that my father died was not about him in his mind. Rather, it was about us. My mom was worried that other people were thinking about us if I knew that my father had committed suicide. Perhaps, I thought that it was our fault. They may suggest that we will drive him to them. They may suggest that they could not respond appropriately to suicidal tendencies. In short, my mother was worried that he might blame us for suicide by my father.
The idea of what we did or said, or that it has always stuck in our hearts. It was an emotionally destructive self-guilt trip. The feeling of guilt may fall into a dilemma. It is particularly harmful if guilty is unfair.
The true and imaginary approach of Christians is the recognition and confession of sin and faith in God's love, goodness and power. "I will never pay attention to him." Possibility of one's own, possibility of suicide, lack of situation, or a decrease (psychosis) under the circumstances, a feeling of guilt. To cope with suicide, we must throw away the feeling of guilt. It does not belong to the process of sorrow. Sorrow is enough to deal with without the burden of unnecessary and unreasonable guilt.
Even if guilt does not exist, conscience will find opportunities and evidence to prosecute. That is the fight that I call responsible game. A blame game is a way to condemn and copy someone else for suicide death that afflicts you. Sometimes you blame another relative. Sometimes you blame someone who committed suicide. Often it is a combination of them. Arousing such anger by others tends to provide some remedy in a short period of time. It will not work in the long run. It is almost always wrong to blame someone for suicide. If a metal disease is the perpetrator, no one takes responsibility except for mental illness. As people get to accept this truth more quickly, they will be on the path of recovery soon.
Most people are ignorant about suicide. So they are often ashamed of their family and friends who are struggling with suitcases. It is a mistake to receive accusations of suicide deaths of family members and friends. It is cruel to devastate the suffering people. To feel uncomfortable with suicide is by no means an excuse for rejecting those who fight this most tragic death. If the person dies of a heart attack or cancer, will you desertify? How can I desertify if a beloved person dies of suicide psychosis?
Psychosis can kill like cancer or heart disease. In suicide, in most cases, it is a mental illness, not a person, and often kills. People who are mentally stable do not respond to angry words or events by killing themselves. Only people who are sick and mentally emotionally do so. That's why their response to anger and other stimuli is irrational and irrational. If they are healthy, their reaction is illegal. It is suicide.
Depression affects the state of your mental and spiritual mind, but it is a biological origin. Depression may be caused by anger or anger with a physiological effect. Anger can elicit an emotional reaction, but it is a culprit biological psychosis (depression). People get angry every day, but because they are mentally healthy they do not kill themselves. I am not accusing or encouraging people who commit suicide here. This leads us to God's mercy. He knows everything, he is just and he is benevolent. Take comfort with divine mercy. With a few exceptions, please be assured that understanding suicide is complete and understanding that it is vulnerable.
About twenty years after my father died, I had to deal with multiple suicide attempts by my brothers. It was horribly emotionally draining. My older brother is still alive - I thank God. But he had many close calls. Death had knocked on his door many times. The family was notified promptly to go to the hospital. The doctor was doubtful about my brother surviving the recent suicide attempt and surviving
He is grateful for his life. He will also feel incredible guilt due to fear and heartache that brought suicide to his family. Then he will retire and retreat. Finally, like a vicious circle, I will try it over and over again.
My older brother is a veteran of Vietnam. Like so many veterinarians who tolerated the conflict, he suffers from posttraumatic stress disorder (PTSD). He is designated as a service associated with a veteran with 100% disability. Depression is the result of PTSD. Fortunately, my older brother talked about psychosis and thought treatment. There is no doubt that treatment, medication, and prayers have been saved
His life. Despite his still suffering from his illness he was able to live almost a productive life. Treatment, medication, prayer is the difference between my brother and father. Our father did not have any of these, and of course he died.
Just 20 years after my father died, I had to deal with the suicide death of a son of a very close friend of 14 years old. It was shocking and mental. Losing a child unexpectedly is the worst worry that can not bear to date. Losing that child as a result of suicide is much worse. It is truly extreme sorrow.
There was a warning sign, but I was not aware of my parents. He experienced a small personality and behavioral change observed at school and friends, especially his girlfriend, and at home. Therefore, why is communication with family important? Depression is often difficult to see if you are not looking for it. School officials and friends did not know the warning signs or ignored them. Families can not depend on other people to inform them.
Symptoms of depression and suicidal emotions include changes in diet and sleep habits, withdrawal from friends and family, valuable assets, rebellious behavior, escape, drugs and alcohol abuse, unexplainable obsession, work and school Decline in work, a marked change in personality. It is important for parents, teachers, counselors, pastors to recognize and recognize these signs. It can save someone's life.
Everything seemed normal during that night. I did not see anything unique or unique. It was a pleasant evening until his mother heard shootings and began the huge sorrow. This is a general reason compounded. It was accompanied by guilt and responsibility that his family is not supposed to feel. It was not their fault. That was not his fault, either. his
If you leave untreated, psychosis has killed him just like cancer is going to be a victim. However, unless you know that the child is sick, the parent can not receive treatment of children or medical therapy.
It was difficult to experience this challenge with them. I got tired and felt pain and shared sorrow. Still, being there was important. It strengthened our friendship and made it a new level. It is something you should remember if you know the person you are trying to survive from suicide. Please stay there for them. That is correct. Christianity is something to do. Do not wait for a phone that does not provide help and never comes. We insist on sharing their sorrows. If nothing else is sitting together, keep them, listen to them, or just quietly occupy them and space. They will get a measure of just comfort from your presence. They know that you really are there, unless sorrow becomes too much and you do not burden alone.
Our recent loss was the death of my niece suicide. This was particularly difficult to deal with. My mother was not very stable and I already explained my brother's history. This was his first born daughter. It was a monumental emotional effort to worry about how sorrow affects while dealing with our own sorrow. It made a legend that they became strong at the new level.
I saw my niece grow into a female gem. She was as pure as the driven snow. She was devout with Christian faith. She was a registered nurse prideful in providing medical care for other people. She honored her country as a commissioner of the US Air Force. She was in her early thirties, but she was very sick. She was psychotic.
My niece was bipolar. She was in the shape of the most severe obsessive-compulsive disorder that psychiatrists have never seen before. She was also suffering from schizophrenia episodes and severe clinical depression. As RN she understood her condition. She thought she wanted to live, but I did not know why she had such mental suffering. Nobody was able to help her. There is no suffix. As a woman of faith she was desperately suffering and constantly praying over her knees for hours and many at once.
She had several suicide projects that failed. She was destined to succeed at a certain point. When people get sick, they can not give reasons. It can not be thoughtful or streamlined effectively. All of them are suffering. It is not surprising that they concentrate on ending their suffering. Psychosis can be extremely lethal.
It is important to understand that healthy people do not kill themselves. People suffering from depression do not seem like a typical person feeling good. They live here now. Depression does not look forward to a better time. They can not understand positive thinking. Sometimes, they are not aware that they are sick like my dad and the son of our friend. Sometimes, they are very aware of psychosis like my brothers and niece. They will help and effort as much as they can, but sometimes nothing works for them. It is a medicine, not a medicine. Absolutely nothing helps them. These are suicidal psychosis most severe troubles. My niece was one of these. They will try to commit suicide until they succeed. You can not help them. You can not save them. What you can do is to pray for them.
Some experts say that suicide can be prevented, but it gets in the way. This suggests that all those who have committed suicide have been saved. It is true that suicide is often preventable, but sometimes it is not wise. Promoting other people can lead to infinite pain and unnecessary sin by suicide victims. In reality, in serious cases of metal diseases, even if God's intervention is lacking it can not save a suicide.
Remember, no one committed suicide and appealed for depression. They will do something to get rid of it. Being depressed is not the result of life's choice more than catching the cold. Some people get it, others do not. Its the life.
It is difficult to imagine suicide as a crime among these clinically depressed people. Regardless of what the disease is, I can not contract God with indifference to my illness. If suicide committed a crime in such a situation, it would have been sinful to die from influenza and pneumonia. It is comforting to know that the mainstream religion understands and shares this point of view, especially Christianity. The Catholic Church of my faith was convicted in connection with suicide. The suicide committee was taught as a crime of death. This explains why my mother is still lying about her husband's death. However, after that, the Catholic Church clarified the position on the suicide problem. The doctrinal Bible of the Catholic Church has declared "Do not despair of the eternal salvation of those who run their lives" (2282 - 83).
This does not mean that suicide never sins. If someone has a healthy mind and acts to kill themselves systematically for punishment or other purpose to harm others, it would be a sin. If they escape from being punished by the state for criminal prosecution by doing suicide, which is probably a crime. Those who committed suicide with malicious intent for the purpose of evil are subject to serious danger of death sin. It is the same as homicide. This is a clear violation of God's commandments. "You will not kill."
If a person certainly believes in the soul of the heart because of a mental illness, regardless of whether it is wrong or not, suffering and suffering of others will end after dying. Of God. Please remember that "There is no greater love than sending a life for others."
Among the people who committed suicide, there is intense courage to the business. Consider a soldier deliberately thrown into a grenade or a landmine to save his companion's life. Has he deliberately killed himself (ie committed suicide)? Yes, of course he did. Was it also an act of courage and courage of self-hatred? definitely! It was brave and selfless. We will distinguish this soldier properly from heroes. Some people suggest that suicide is not a hat. Jesus works as a perfect example of the person who suffered very much and sacrificed for the salvation of others. Sometimes we need to remind.
Depression is a usually treatable condition. Most people with depression do not commit suicide or try it. However, they are prone to the risk of suicidal thinking, and they and their families should know this. Most people who are suffering from psychosis will benefit from treatment, medication, or a combination of these, if it is not there. In depressed cases, very often, these people can live a perfectly normal and happy life. It is important to recognize the problem first and get medical treatment as soon as possible.
Some people tend to commit suicide than others. They should pay particular attention to depression symptoms in particular. Suicide tends to live with family. My family is a proof of living this. Suicide often results from brain disorders such as depression, anxiety disorder, bipolar disorder, schizophrenia, and severe obsessive compulsive disorder. All of these brain disorders have genetic elements that can cause suicide if left untreated or abused. The longer you go without treatment, the greater the risk of suicide. Therefore, it is dangerous to avoid treatment because there is a fear of being displayed as being crazy for people in depressed state. We live in modern times. We are beyond such foolishness. I swore at least that.
If you suffer from depression, do not take chances - please help me. If your child is depressed, help your child and do it at once. Do this also in terms of resistance. You may be saving your life.
Psychosis is estimated to be the cause of 95% of all suicides. The first place of suicide is untreated depression. 95% of all suicides are a direct consequence of the brain damage mentioned above. According to the National Mental Health Association, the suicide rate of teens has increased by 200% over the past 40 years. It is three times that in 1960. Suicide is the third leading cause of death from 15 to 24 years old. Approximately 5000 people aged 15-24 years committed suicide every year. These are amazing numbers.
In conclusion, it is important to point out that maintaining your faith increases your recovery rate from the tragedy of suicide. Do not pray more. Please pray instead. Your faith will be the source of your greatest comfort. Do not get angry with God. By letting your loved ones dead, God did not betray you. He understands the pain of death. He has endured it for you the death of his only son's sacrifice and everything else. Jesus understands the pain of death. Please remember that he cried for Lazarus. I remember how he suffered because of his own reckless death. I remember how blessed his mother died when Mary died Remember the painful death of his apostles.
Please remember. It is set in advance. We can not flee from death, at least not the life of this world. Your loved one died of suicide ruled mental illness. Even with the death of this world, we are still connected spiritually. You have not lost your loved one. You surely postpone being in your company until God comes back. Do not try to rush the process as he will do it soon. Please remember about his will, not yours.
If you have to stop being a suicide, your suffering of loss may seem initially unable to overcome, but please feel at ease knowing that you can survive. When a loved one dies, everyone must go through a process of sorrow. Sorrow related to suicide death of a loved one is clearly more difficult to deal with than other types of death. However, it is similar in terms of terminating in the same way. You inevitably will not get over your loss. That blank is always there. But you learn to deal with it and deal with it. Your pain will fade away. You will understand that the loved one is with you and the spirit with you. You will laugh again. You will have love and experience.
joy. Even though sadness is always lost, you can rest assured. However, we are sorry if we lose youth and vitality. It does not mean that we remain miserable for it.
I will not only sorrow but also let go. If necessary, obtain professional, spiritual and other help. As Jesus and the blessed mother accepted the fate of holy sacrifice in Calvary, please accept the fate you received. While suffering from the sufferings of the Cross, Jesus asked the heavenly Father, "Why did you abandon me?" Even the Human Son, why did you ask? He also said, "You will be done." Our Lord accepted our fate with faith and taught us the same by doing so. We do not need to know and understand everything. In faith, like Jesus, we must believe that God understands and knows what is the best. He will take care of things altogether. No matter how suffering we are at that time, as Jesus said, please accept the fate you treated. After all, you can not change it and you are not responsible for it.
Keep memory and understand the difference in obsession with the soul. Free your soul from your heart so that your loved one prepares a place for you when your time comes, can be with our Lord. You will be together again, next time will be for eternity. It will be a joyful eternity with the Almighty God. Trust God and keep your faith. God makes it right. You survive.
Copyright: Ed Coet
